Laura Hershey

Several months ago I went to Denver to  crip poet and activist Laura Hershey’s memorial. In disability community, memorials are such sweet and sorrowful events, times of gathering and hanging out and times of deep missing and mourning. I of course kept expecting/wanting/seeing out of the corner of my eye Laura roll into the room. How very predictable. Here’s what I read at the memorial service:

“Laura, you wrote the following in a poem called ‘Telling’:

‘Those with power can afford
to tell their story
or not.
Those without power
risk everything to tell their story
and must.
Someone, somewhere
will hear your story and decide to fight,
to live and refuse compromise.
Someone else will tell
her own story,
risking everything.’

“Laura, I still don’t believe that you’re dead, that you won’t write another poem; take another grand adventure; post another lovely and important essay to your blog; rabble rouse, advocate, and publish that first necessary book of poems; go on loving as a disabled dyke mother poet activist. Laura, I just don’t believe it.

“When the news of your sudden passing came down through the community, I heard a lot of stories about how and when folks first met you, read your work. But me, I don’t know. I try to trace it back, when first you entered my world. Were you there in 1985 when I caught my first glimmer of disability politics in the anthology The Power of Each Breath? Or when I lived with a disabled dyke, sat on the front stoop with her, never even whispering the word disability? Or in 1993 when I wrote my first torrent of disability poems after hearing the gay disabled Jewish poet Kenny Fries read? All I know is somewhere in that decade as I came into my queer crip self, you entered my world, long before we ever met. But I don’t know when. Tracing the years back, I struggle to find that moment.  But every time I end with the sense, feeling, truth that, even though you were only months older than me, you came before me, made my life as a white queer crip poet rabble-rouser more possible. Your telling has always cradled, nurtured, fed mine.

“And so I want to send to you, wherever you are now, a fragment of writing queer poet to queer poet. One day as Laura and I and many others were organizing the Queer Disability Conference in 2002 we were emailing back and forth about designing  the conference t-shirt. Laura wrote, ‘Let’s use a quote.’ And then wrote, ‘I vote for a quote of Eli’s from ‘Gawking, Gaping, Staring’.’ I wrote back with a resounding, ‘No friggin way. We’re not putting the words of one of the core organizers on the conference t-shirt.’ And we moved on. But now I want to send these words out to you, Laura:

‘I am looking for friends and allies, communities where gawking, gaping, staring finally turns to something else, something true to the bone. Places where strength is softened and tempered, love honed and stretched. Where gender is more than a simple binary. Places where we encourage each other to swish and swagger, limp and roll, and learn the language of pride. Places where our bodies become home.’

‘Laura, thank you.”

Lauren said,

December 20, 2016 @ 2:50 pm

Clare discusses how impactful Laura was on his journey through growing up as a queer, and how he gained pride in being abnormal. He owns the person that he is, and holds pride in the fact that he is disabled, and that he is abnormal. Laura has helped him along the way gain this pride and this power. He discusses how he knows he deserves the same rights as someone who is able bodied.

Marissa said,

December 20, 2016 @ 5:28 pm

This speech, given in honor of Laura Hershey, is very powerful because it touches upon similar ideas that are displayed in “Freaks and Queers”. Clare is a big believer in the idea that nobody in society should have the power to determine what constitutes normal. Everybody should be accepted for who they are and not marginalized based on disability, race or sexuality. Clare embraces his differences and thanks Hershey for her support in his beliefs.

Sean said,

December 22, 2016 @ 10:04 pm

Being abnormal is not a bad thing. It certainly doesn’t mean that you should have less rights than anyone else. Laura discusses her feelings about how those disabled want to have and deserve normal lives. Laura was an inspiration to to Clare. They both know who they are, are accepting of it, and are empowered by it.

Lauren said,

December 23, 2016 @ 4:48 am

I like how Clare includes the excerpt from Laura Hershey’s poem, “Telling” because it describes how those without power must risk everything just to simply share their story. This goes to show that those who are discriminated against have less of an opportunity to express themselves within society. The only way to eliminate this stereotype is for those who are discriminated against to speak up for themselves. Although, this often leads to harsh judgement; hence, “those without power must risk everything to tell their story and must.” I think this statement is very powerful and I think it is important that we strive to live in a world where everyone has the right the express themselves without the fear of being judged.

Sam said,

December 23, 2016 @ 1:57 pm

” Where gender is more than a simple binary” this is interesting because all the authors mentioned in this are all making are helping to make societ less constricting, not even for gender but disabilities, sexuality and all other marginalized minority’s.

Kevin said,

December 23, 2016 @ 5:38 pm

Growing up with a disability is hard enough when you want to be like everyone else. Embracing who you are is extremely vital in a disabled persons life and Hershey was a huge supporter of this and in the blog post Clare thanks Hershey for supporting that belief. Being disabled doesn’t mean you have less rights, everyone has equal rights and should be treated with respect and dignity. Being disabled can be very hard for some people and then fighting to be treated like you’re normal can be as hard. Thanks to Clare and Hershey they are spreading full awareness such that one should always be embracing who they are

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